"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This thread will make you hungry.

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Let's talk about food. What did you have for dinner today? Was it good? What are you drinking right now? Let everyone know what goes in your mouth! Unless, you're gay. Then, we already know. Please, don't tell us. Please.

Right now, I'm drinking a starbucks frappucino. So good. Vanilla flavor, taste just like ice cream. Just got done eating a personal pizza from Subway (yeah! They have pizza now. How cool is that?!).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Strong brazilian coffee in the morning. Now I've just finished a huge cup of water. :D
 

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4 macdonalds burguers, 1 pack of fries, 2 chicken breasts, rice and loads of water. Damn I am happy :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mmmmmm, nice. I just got done eating some rice with steak. I had a nice salad with balsamic vinegarette dressing. I also had some delcious pudding for dessert.

I had a cookies and cream flavored protein shake about 2 hours ago.
 

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~attrACTION~ said:
Mmmmmm, nice. I just got done eating some rice with steak. I had a nice salad with balsamic vinegarette dressing. I also had some delcious pudding for dessert.

I had a cookies and cream flavored protein shake about 2 hours ago.
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That made me hungry again :D
 

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Hyde said:
Let everyone know what goes in your mouth! Unless, you're gay. Then, we already know. Please, don't tell us. Please.

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Right now, I'm drinking a starbucks frappucino. So good. Vanilla flavor, taste just like ice cream.
Frappucinos are for gays...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Last night I had freshly roasted (~ 275 deg F / 140 deg C for a long time) organic, free range pig in a stew with squash and spinach (also organic), and a small glass of amontillado. Yah, it was real good.

This morning I'm lazy: sunflower seed butter on dark rice bread with a whey protein drink.
 
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