"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This thread will make you hungry.

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Let's talk about food. What did you have for dinner today? Was it good? What are you drinking right now? Let everyone know what goes in your mouth! Unless, you're gay. Then, we already know. Please, don't tell us. Please.

Right now, I'm drinking a starbucks frappucino. So good. Vanilla flavor, taste just like ice cream. Just got done eating a personal pizza from Subway (yeah! They have pizza now. How cool is that?!).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Strong brazilian coffee in the morning. Now I've just finished a huge cup of water. :D
 

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4 macdonalds burguers, 1 pack of fries, 2 chicken breasts, rice and loads of water. Damn I am happy :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mmmmmm, nice. I just got done eating some rice with steak. I had a nice salad with balsamic vinegarette dressing. I also had some delcious pudding for dessert.

I had a cookies and cream flavored protein shake about 2 hours ago.
 

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~attrACTION~ said:
Mmmmmm, nice. I just got done eating some rice with steak. I had a nice salad with balsamic vinegarette dressing. I also had some delcious pudding for dessert.

I had a cookies and cream flavored protein shake about 2 hours ago.
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That made me hungry again :D
 

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Hyde said:
Let everyone know what goes in your mouth! Unless, you're gay. Then, we already know. Please, don't tell us. Please.

.............

Right now, I'm drinking a starbucks frappucino. So good. Vanilla flavor, taste just like ice cream.
Frappucinos are for gays...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Last night I had freshly roasted (~ 275 deg F / 140 deg C for a long time) organic, free range pig in a stew with squash and spinach (also organic), and a small glass of amontillado. Yah, it was real good.

This morning I'm lazy: sunflower seed butter on dark rice bread with a whey protein drink.
 
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