This stuff is working!

[Dirtheart]

I'm told I'm quite a smooth talker, calm and cool, confident and I think the c&f approach applies to me in a big way. However, I'm all these things around friends, but rarely around women I'm getting to know. Until visiting this site, I didn't realise that these are primary qualities women go for.

So, I have started acting this way all day, every day. Additionally, I have started slowing down, taking things at my own pace. I've started speaking with conviction, less haste and a steady tone. I've also taken care in my posture, keeping my head raised and my shoulders back.

Not only do I feel a lot better about myself, but during the past week I've started noticing that people (male and female) are suddenly treating me with a lot more respect, even humility in some cases.

I got talking to a few ladies recently and during the conversation they told me I seem to have "a presence" about me and an air of sophistication!

Anyway, one of the girls asked me out! It was complicated, so I didn't take her up on it, but I took it as a good sign.

So, all in all, I think my change has been for the best. I'll see if it continues this way.

P.S. Thanks to everyone who has offered me advice.

 

[Don of Truth]

Nice job

Wow, you are on your way to being one of the few, the proud, the alpha male !

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

We told you this kung fu was strong!

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

It is the inner qualities that you possess that make you who you are and not a technique or program! Some DJ skills may work in the short run, but in the long run it is your values and character that will make you a success in life and with women!