"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This shyt turning to girlie forum....

DanelMadr

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Have you ever noticed that this forum looks more like the girlie site?

'I said this he said that...it felt so nice...then I lost him...how can I get him back?'

or

'What should I say or how should I pretend or act to let him know I am really the one?' 'Oh don't call him sister, let him wait.'

Girls play attraction games. Faking disinterest, flirt, not flirt, neg hit...whatever.
Don't play their game guys....you will lose and not only tha game but your balls and brain too, because your brain is not wired for that, unless you are a homo.

When in doubt ask yourself what would Philip Marlowe do?
Get rid of fears....girls, other guys, rejection, no rejection, sex, no sex, whatever. Grow a pair and stop playing and pretending.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't let your door hit your ass on the way out ... some of these guy's here are at the very bottom level of knowledge and ability on how to bag a girl ... they will ask things and say things that may sound silly to us ...

But just give em a break... or just don't read what they have to say?
 

DanelMadr

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Demonicale said:
Don't let your door hit your ass on the way out ... some of these guy's here are at the very bottom level of knowledge and ability on how to bag a girl ... they will ask things and say things that may sound silly to us ...

But just give em a break... or just don't read what they have to say?
I think more emphasis should be put on being all you can be and cut the playing short. "We teach/preach" here behavior before reason.
It is the same in todays general public martial arts classes....they teach you all the moves but you come out the same pvssy you came in. You know how to strike but you lack the warrior mindset.

In the end of the day you find out all the years of teaching some fighting style were waste of your precious time, because all it takes to survive a fight are few simple moves and warrior mindset. Once you have it you can learn whatever fancy moves to show on social occasions.

Sosuave community should put more weight on the inner game and do not mislead young gentlemen into thinking a few tactics will make their day....it only makes them more frustrated in the end.

I know, I know...it is hard to stay on course on public forum and I am quite surprised sosuave still holds on. Nevrtheless I feel the need to remind my dear colleagues of the right course.

I just hope it does not sound too much patronising and know-it-all.
 
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