"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This shyt turning to girlie forum....

DanelMadr

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Have you ever noticed that this forum looks more like the girlie site?

'I said this he said that...it felt so nice...then I lost him...how can I get him back?'

or

'What should I say or how should I pretend or act to let him know I am really the one?' 'Oh don't call him sister, let him wait.'

Girls play attraction games. Faking disinterest, flirt, not flirt, neg hit...whatever.
Don't play their game guys....you will lose and not only tha game but your balls and brain too, because your brain is not wired for that, unless you are a homo.

When in doubt ask yourself what would Philip Marlowe do?
Get rid of fears....girls, other guys, rejection, no rejection, sex, no sex, whatever. Grow a pair and stop playing and pretending.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Demonicale

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Don't let your door hit your ass on the way out ... some of these guy's here are at the very bottom level of knowledge and ability on how to bag a girl ... they will ask things and say things that may sound silly to us ...

But just give em a break... or just don't read what they have to say?
 

DanelMadr

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Demonicale said:
Don't let your door hit your ass on the way out ... some of these guy's here are at the very bottom level of knowledge and ability on how to bag a girl ... they will ask things and say things that may sound silly to us ...

But just give em a break... or just don't read what they have to say?
I think more emphasis should be put on being all you can be and cut the playing short. "We teach/preach" here behavior before reason.
It is the same in todays general public martial arts classes....they teach you all the moves but you come out the same pvssy you came in. You know how to strike but you lack the warrior mindset.

In the end of the day you find out all the years of teaching some fighting style were waste of your precious time, because all it takes to survive a fight are few simple moves and warrior mindset. Once you have it you can learn whatever fancy moves to show on social occasions.

Sosuave community should put more weight on the inner game and do not mislead young gentlemen into thinking a few tactics will make their day....it only makes them more frustrated in the end.

I know, I know...it is hard to stay on course on public forum and I am quite surprised sosuave still holds on. Nevrtheless I feel the need to remind my dear colleagues of the right course.

I just hope it does not sound too much patronising and know-it-all.
 
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