"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This should go without saying, but keep your thoughts to yourself.

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Especially your thoughts on women and the game...sometimes its fun to let women know that you know the score, and they will admit the truth of the game when faced with it, but you don't want a lot of women in your social circle to know your opinions on the game and women. Especially if your thoughts do not agree with the mainstream feminist/gay/afc agenda. The game is to be played silently. Hunters do go around with bullhorns and firing off shots, you dig?

Don't go posting your thoughts on women and the game on your facebook and myspace and that sort of stuff. I just saw one of my friends do that to spark a debate (don't date single mothers), but really it turned into women and afcs bashing him for his opinions. He's a bit of a player...but now everyone knows how he thinks and can read it. And you know how stupid the human animal is, if everyone says this guy is wrong then he's wrong, right?

I sent him a message telling him to delete that entire thing quickly, before it put a stain on his rep. It's probably too late.

Just remember...keep your thoughts to yourself. Let your actions speak for you.


edit.

I posted this in the mature man forum by mistake, but for those who don't go there, check out the thread, some good advice there.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=159288
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I agree with you on that. Sometimes i will get carried away when helping out a friend, and he may leak something out about me. Nowadays, I'd think twice before giving advice to help out a friend.

Don't think it's worth it to get a bad reputation because of an AFC friend who doesn't want to listen to my advice.

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True that...

Reminds me of when an acquaintance of mine posted some note on facebook criticizing "the game." Women and even a few guys posted, giving the guy tremendous props. I was so tempted to get on there and set the guy straight but I decided against it. I'd end up looking like the douchebag.

When I saw him in person, though, I quietly called him out on it. In truth this guy is a real tool. ****y and confident, but in a bad way...He definitely uses elements of the game, he just doesn't want to admit it. I merely said "you got the response you wanted huh?"
 
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