"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This should go without saying, but keep your thoughts to yourself.

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Especially your thoughts on women and the game...sometimes its fun to let women know that you know the score, and they will admit the truth of the game when faced with it, but you don't want a lot of women in your social circle to know your opinions on the game and women. Especially if your thoughts do not agree with the mainstream feminist/gay/afc agenda. The game is to be played silently. Hunters do go around with bullhorns and firing off shots, you dig?

Don't go posting your thoughts on women and the game on your facebook and myspace and that sort of stuff. I just saw one of my friends do that to spark a debate (don't date single mothers), but really it turned into women and afcs bashing him for his opinions. He's a bit of a player...but now everyone knows how he thinks and can read it. And you know how stupid the human animal is, if everyone says this guy is wrong then he's wrong, right?

I sent him a message telling him to delete that entire thing quickly, before it put a stain on his rep. It's probably too late.

Just remember...keep your thoughts to yourself. Let your actions speak for you.


edit.

I posted this in the mature man forum by mistake, but for those who don't go there, check out the thread, some good advice there.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=159288
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I agree with you on that. Sometimes i will get carried away when helping out a friend, and he may leak something out about me. Nowadays, I'd think twice before giving advice to help out a friend.

Don't think it's worth it to get a bad reputation because of an AFC friend who doesn't want to listen to my advice.

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True that...

Reminds me of when an acquaintance of mine posted some note on facebook criticizing "the game." Women and even a few guys posted, giving the guy tremendous props. I was so tempted to get on there and set the guy straight but I decided against it. I'd end up looking like the douchebag.

When I saw him in person, though, I quietly called him out on it. In truth this guy is a real tool. ****y and confident, but in a bad way...He definitely uses elements of the game, he just doesn't want to admit it. I merely said "you got the response you wanted huh?"
 
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