"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This should go without saying, but keep your thoughts to yourself.

Warrior74

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Especially your thoughts on women and the game...sometimes its fun to let women know that you know the score, and they will admit the truth of the game when faced with it, but you don't want a lot of women in your social circle to know your opinions on the game and women. Especially if your thoughts do not agree with the mainstream feminist/gay/afc agenda. The game is to be played silently. Hunters do go around with bullhorns and firing off shots, you dig?

Don't go posting your thoughts on women and the game on your facebook and myspace and that sort of stuff. I just saw one of my friends do that to spark a debate (don't date single mothers), but really it turned into women and afcs bashing him for his opinions. He's a bit of a player...but now everyone knows how he thinks and can read it. And you know how stupid the human animal is, if everyone says this guy is wrong then he's wrong, right?

I sent him a message telling him to delete that entire thing quickly, before it put a stain on his rep. It's probably too late.

Just remember...keep your thoughts to yourself. Let your actions speak for you.


edit.

I posted this in the mature man forum by mistake, but for those who don't go there, check out the thread, some good advice there.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=159288
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I agree with you on that. Sometimes i will get carried away when helping out a friend, and he may leak something out about me. Nowadays, I'd think twice before giving advice to help out a friend.

Don't think it's worth it to get a bad reputation because of an AFC friend who doesn't want to listen to my advice.

Word.
 

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True that...

Reminds me of when an acquaintance of mine posted some note on facebook criticizing "the game." Women and even a few guys posted, giving the guy tremendous props. I was so tempted to get on there and set the guy straight but I decided against it. I'd end up looking like the douchebag.

When I saw him in person, though, I quietly called him out on it. In truth this guy is a real tool. ****y and confident, but in a bad way...He definitely uses elements of the game, he just doesn't want to admit it. I merely said "you got the response you wanted huh?"
 
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