DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
wow, it makes you literally sick? I'm sorry to hear that.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This sh!t literally makes me sick...
- Thread starter squirrels
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
One on One
Master Don Juan
Take a break from the forums, guys...I took six months off. It gives you a new perspective and now that I'm back it's not so self-destructive like it used to.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
That's news to me. I have to have friends before I would have a girlfriend? That sounds ridiculous to me. I look for friends too but sometimes it just takes a long time for some people (like me) to find other people that connect with them well if you know what I mean.Originally posted by Hellboy
Good for you Friv, I saw your thread. Me and Sous are like horny little animals
Caldus, don't 'try to open up to them more', just concentrate more on having a good time with them. If they have a good time with you, they will want to spend more time with you.
Cold approaches are fine if that's what you wanna do, but don't expect a girl to take you seriously for long if you don't have friends. Friends are essential if you want to hold onto a hot woman for any period of time. The cooler your friends are the better. And they must respect you, because she will pay close attention to this. If you find you're having trouble with making friends you actually want to hang out with, then maybe you should brush up on your social skills a little, or just relax more.
Maybe girls aren't "that" important. Maybe being a man who bags numerous ladies in a month isn't "that" important. Maybe getting a girl to sleep with you isn't "that" important. If you make bedding women a passion in your life, but you aren't really that good with them, I'm sure you'll feel very lousy about it.
The problem lies with wanting to fvck all these girls that you put your moves on. If you just want to get to know them, it ain't such a big deal because there are many girls that you can get to know very easily. It's not like they're in short supply. But when you start wanting to be good at getting to fvck them, it becomes like a mission. A mission in which you would hate to fail in.
Whether a girl decides to just be friends or whether they decide they want to fvck me, I am really not bothered. Either way is perfectly fine by me. Women make great friends too. Although they can be petty and annoying, friends are there to occupy my time. Just like hobbies. It may seem like I don't cherish them but I never disrespect them, otherwise I should get comfortable with being alone.
The problem lies with wanting to fvck all these girls that you put your moves on. If you just want to get to know them, it ain't such a big deal because there are many girls that you can get to know very easily. It's not like they're in short supply. But when you start wanting to be good at getting to fvck them, it becomes like a mission. A mission in which you would hate to fail in.
Whether a girl decides to just be friends or whether they decide they want to fvck me, I am really not bothered. Either way is perfectly fine by me. Women make great friends too. Although they can be petty and annoying, friends are there to occupy my time. Just like hobbies. It may seem like I don't cherish them but I never disrespect them, otherwise I should get comfortable with being alone.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
So if you have no friends or girlfriend, then you gotta start somewhere. And that would mean cold approaches. That's my situation.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Mojo604
Senior Don Juan
nmOriginally posted by squirrels
This forum, the dating "game", "clubbin' ", online hook-up sites, having to regard every girl as potential "prey", sex, dating...the whole 9 yards.
I'm just tired of it. It's almost become a hassle to even think about women.
I'mma stop thinking about it (or try at least). Honestly, it wasnt' meant to be this much work, if it was, people wouldn't do it.
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