You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I was serious about my comment... It's not a bad post... it's the fact that it's so common... This is how I feel about that quote...Capi, please go away if you aren't going to add anything constructive or insightful. I want to take you seriously, but sometimes (a lot of times) you come off like an attention-seeking troll.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ok, so you have your **** cut off. Be happy you still have your life.Originally posted by Capi Crimini
dude I was totally serious with the post... I hate those nice people.
Those people where you could mug them cut off there **** and they'd be smiling away like there on an Enzyte commercial...
You guys are totally ****ed up.
Yes, that's the problem. You hear a phrase too many times and it becomes cliched and it loses it's effect. But the power of this MJ phrase is beyond what most people comprehend. Once you DO comprehend it (and it takes an effort to) and implement it into your life whenever you need it, you realize it's effect.Originally posted by chicksrock
the quote...and the man's achievements to date is definitely not to be undermined...
i guess many are just too lazy to comprehend it ...
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
YOUR NEGATIVITY IS NOT HEALTHY.Originally posted by Capi Crimini
dude I was totally serious with the post... I hate those nice people.
Those people where you could mug them cut off there **** and they'd be smiling away like there on an Enzyte commercial...
You guys are totally ****ed up.