"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Gpaq

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My one-itis:
- Broke with her LTR (7 years) BF to come with me. Breaks with me after 3 months and goes with i don't know who.
- 7 months after breaking up with me, approaches me again. She was saying she was single. After 2 months of dating (no commited relationship but sex and fun) she stops dating saying that her LTR BF came back.
- 4 months after this ****, she starts flirting with me again. I took no **** and didn't make a move. I Know I could. And now, the good part. She breaks up with her BF (probably for another guy). She tells it to me (emotional tampon). A few days later, her BF contacts me. We talk. She asks me what had happend. I told him everything. I learn that all the time she was dating me (the second time), she was with him (lying *****).
- I make her tell me the truth. She denied everything at first but then she admitted it. She told me that she didn't want to see me ever again. I agreed.
- She calls again and says that things are a bit tense between us now and that we should stop talking- for now. The ***** wants either to leave the door open (so she'll treat me like **** again) or she's afraid that I'll speak to her BF again.

Ok, crucify me. Remember, this is my one-itis. At first, I wanted revenge. Then, I thought that we could be just friends. Now, I know that I'm a looser. A looser banging 2 other chicks. Infatuation? I don't know. Stupidity? YES.
Feel free to give any opinion on the matter and tell me what you would do. Thanks in advance... I feel like ****.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So you were dating an AW or borderline personality disorder chick... Whats your question?
 

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The girl has problems. Next her and move on.
 
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