This place has gone to shyt

[Beyond It]

pls stand tall and shout this. this is it. this is the elephant in the room. every man should take a look at this. its a spectrum, it can be better for most men.

Every man should be testing regularly. This way he can register what foods and activities are destroying him. When I had my son get tested and he had lower testosterone than me, it was an eye opener.

The death of the male is almost imminent. With low T a man has zero chance at life the way he really wants it.

 

[BaronOfHair]

If mass approaching worked then every guy would be doing it right now.

No, most men in The US currently have a mindset along the following lines https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...hinking-youll-definitely-get-rejected.284586/

They're devoted to manufacturing justifications for not rectifying whatever it is they claim to be dissatisfied with

 

[SW15]

Due to OLD, real life approaching has become a novelty and as such, good approaching (mostly during nightlife although anywhere if done properly) stands out and can be effective

Approaching strangers has rarely been effective for most people doing it.

Remember why online dating was first developed in the 1990s. Online dating websites in the 1990s were reactions to the bar scenes of the 1970s-1990s being a dissatisfying experience.

The bar scenes of the 1970s-1990s were more approach oriented than the 2010s-2020s bar scene.

Younger generations have less tolerance for all that accompanies bar approaching than Boomers or Gen X had when they were younger in the 1970s-1990s.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Approaching strangers has rarely been effective for most people doing it

Of the few million who flock to Hollywood seeking a career in film or TV each year, less than 1% succeed... This has surprisingly little to do with talent, and a great deal to do with the fact that most folks throw in the towel/choose to get caught up in the boozing and the partying, upon realizing that getting up at 6 in the morning Mon-Fri, shaving, showering, going to sh-tlo-ds of auditions + Learning everything they can about the craft of acting can be tough sometimes

Same is true of mating and dating: It can be uncomfortable to get rejected or have a date go sideways, thus most "men" give up after the first couple of attempts go sideways, instead find excuses to NOT perservere

 

[Gamisch]

A crazy drawback about approaching while being broke is your succes will be your downfall.
Suddenly you have to go out with a woman that is WAY too high maintenance, yet you don't wanna lose face. But eventually you'll get exposed..

When this happened a couple of times I decided I needed to focus more and my financial situation instead of my sexlife...

 

[Gamisch]

Let me say this ; I know it's a seduction forum, but imo it's grew out to much more. That's why I say I don't focus o writing) infield, approach ect. Just being hyper aware of female nature alone can prevent a man from literary devastating his own life, and it's usefull to use in positive ways as maintaining relationships with women.

Life is gonna be HARD. The man who manages to stay afloat will drown in p00sy. That's why I believe in the long game. I've done the Pookie/Rayray broke dating and it made me nothing but miserable.

To kinda "infield" a bit: I seem to have and get MUCH more game now that my focus is on building something. It's seems like women can smell it. They are simply nicer and more receptive to me . Seems like there's a lot to win when it comes to changing your mind and self esteem in regard to how women respond to you. Some men benefit from being less eager and thirsty...

The phrase abundance mindset is a hit / classic in the sphere for a reason. Because we all know that if you : 1. can easily get women and combine this with:
2. You can easily replace them /dismiss them

That you will be on top of your game. The problems for most men is they will meet a handful of women in their life and sometimes you (un) consciously know you won't replace just a dimepiece aka you got lucky. That's when the devastating might begin..many kings and warriors died due to p00sy..

This place ,where we endlessly talk about female nature can be approached from different angles . I'm not against (mass)approaching, but imo that much more effective AFTER you fixed all you other shyte.

That's why say I focus on "creating luck" and on long-term game.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

I once started a field reports thread and lo and behold, it was a reality check for many dudes. I showed guys that in reality, going out rarely amounted to getting laid and how tough it is to actually get laid if you rely on cold approach. What do I get as a result of sharing the action I am taking and the work I am putting into going out there to do Game?

1. Gaslighted by a number of members
2. Whiners asking me why I chase lay count when I can have a girlfriend
3. Guys saying how sad it is and I should just quit

Only @Solomon and @SW15 were guys that actually supported me. In that time, I have managed to build up my social life and also had weeks where I would sleep with 3 to 4 different women at a time. It just required a ton of work but most guys do not want to see what goes into it.

This forum is happy to reward some moron for posting LMS and theories but the second a guy does an actual field report and starts a journal in that world, he gets attacked if he is not showing results.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I once started a field reports thread and lo and behold, it was a reality check for many dudes. I showed guys that in reality, going out rarely amounted to getting laid and how tough it is to actually get laid if you rely on cold approach. What do I get as a result of sharing the action I am taking and the work I am putting into going out there to do Game?

1. Gaslighted by a number of members
2. Whiners asking me why I chase lay count when I can have a girlfriend
3. Guys saying how sad it is and I should just quit

Only @Solomon and @SW15 were guys that actually supported me. In that time, I have managed to build up my social life and also had weeks where I would sleep with 3 to 4 different women at a time. It just required a ton of work but most guys do not want to see what goes into it.

This forum is happy to reward some moron for posting LMS and theories but the second a guy does an actual field report and starts a journal in that world, he gets attacked if he is not showing results.

Only full measures, Jesse.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

. If you think dating sucks and is hard now, boy oh boy you have no idea what will be coming down the pike within the next 10 years because it's about to get a whole lot worse for you if you're struggling now.

Elaborate more on this

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Elaborate more on this

It's the increasing casualties of the high score theory/alpha widowing Jesse. But that's assuming the current trajectory of society holds. A worldwide famine and this all goes out the window.

But to fight this one must remain pure. At least 99.1% and not just 96% Jesse.

 

[The Duke]

I once started a field reports thread and lo and behold, it was a reality check for many dudes. I showed guys that in reality, going out rarely amounted to getting laid and how tough it is to actually get laid if you rely on cold approach. What do I get as a result of sharing the action I am taking and the work I am putting into going out there to do Game?

1. Gaslighted by a number of members
2. Whiners asking me why I chase lay count when I can have a girlfriend
3. Guys saying how sad it is and I should just quit

Only @Solomon and @SW15 were guys that actually supported me. In that time, I have managed to build up my social life and also had weeks where I would sleep with 3 to 4 different women at a time. It just required a ton of work but most guys do not want to see what goes into it.

This forum is happy to reward some moron for posting LMS and theories but the second a guy does an actual field report and starts a journal in that world, he gets attacked if he is not showing results.

Full Measures, Pure.......lol....here ya go.........

You also fabricated stories, lied about your success and admitted it. ;-) Keep it real dude. 100%

 

[BaronOfHair]

I once started a field reports thread and lo and behold, it was a reality check for many dudes. I showed guys that in reality, going out rarely amounted to getting laid and how tough it is to actually get laid if you rely on cold approach

-Aspects of your approach(Walking around in Jorts and a Pinkie Pie T-Shirt, inviting chicks to drop by your tenement house to marvel at your collection of MOTU action figures)may have been fatally flawed

-Going out for the express purpose of snagging cooter often makes a fella look desperate and, by extension, undesirable

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Full Measures, Pure.......lol....here ya go.........

You also fabricated stories, lied about your success and admitted it. ;-) Keep it real dude. 100%

I NEVER once fabricated stories on my actual field reports thread, I said many years ago, almost a decade ago, I did and paid the price for it. Get your facts straight.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

-Aspects of your approach(Walking around in Jorts and a Pinkie Pie T-Shirt, inviting chicks to drop by your tenement house to marvel at your collection of MOTU action figures)may have been fatally flawed

-Going out for the express purpose of snagging cooter often makes a fella look desperate and, by extension, undesirable

^^^ There you go folks, prime example of why the forum is going to shyt.

For one, my approaches were NEVER like you say

Second, you should go out to meet women rather than just socialize, I hate when dudes make up the whole "don't go out for women" garbage, like what are you looking to do? Go out to drink beers and socialize with fat football fans lol

 

[SW15]

you should go out to meet women rather than just socialize, I hate when dudes make up the whole "don't go out for women" garbage, like what are you looking to do?

Going out for the express purpose of snagging cooter often makes a fella look desperate and, by extension, undesirable

Socializing with some intent is good. I think it is difficult to go out without seeking some new interactions with women.

I think a lot of men who seduce women regularly go out with the intention of meeting new women.

Go out to drink beers and socialize with fat football fans lol

That sounds like an extremely beta male thing to do.

 

[The Duke]

I NEVER once fabricated stories on my actual field reports thread, I said many years ago, almost a decade ago, I did and paid the price for it. Get your facts straight.

Ok so you didn't lie on your actual field reports thread, but you did in other places! lol. Thanks for differentiating.

Here are the facts:

Five tough lessons I have learned after consistently running game for months.

In 2022, I made an investment to take game seriously by going out every weekend and talking to women (occasionally weekdays too). I have managed to get numbers, dates, and lays but also come away with some lessons. Before this, I relied on dating apps and a lot of drinking + drunk approaches at...

www.sosuave.net

Post #9:

In fact, many years ago, I used to sadly be one of those bored guys that occasionally made up some erotica-level posts about him having success but it ruined me more than anything. Come to think of it, I did it because I was quite bored, miserable, and lacked the courage to do daygame and talk to women. I still got mines due to online dating but my game was so awful that I managed to screw up some lay ups.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

One thing I have noticed in communities like this is that a man cannot show his weaknesses and be vulnerable. I feel for legit incels that want to get better, they will just have predatory dudes on here trying to sell them coaching or have guys gaslighting them into going for ugly and busted girls. Similarly, you can't post actual field reports and show the various things men have to go through to get laid and have success, you can't show how tough it is to actually get that success.

Everyone wants the finished recipe but no one wants the process of what it takes to get there and the heartache. Everyone wants the perfect ending and that picture perfect lay report but no one wants to hear how many nights out and how grueling the process of learning Game can be.

Once you show what it truly takes, all the fake alphas and knowitall keyboard jockeys on here come to criticize and gaslight you.

 

[BaronOfHair]

^^^ There you go folks, prime example of why the forum is going to shyt.

Yeah, dare to point out that someone's individual perspective is - like EVERYTHING else created by humans - subject to inaccuracies, and folks inevitably "get triggered". Nonsense like that is a prime example as to why our entire civilization has been in something of a Dark Age for the past decade


"For one, my approaches were NEVER like you say"

If you're willing to "hear" outside reviews on your exploits, provide us with some specific examples of recent scenarios. If you're going to get butt-hurt when someone points out that your interpretation of (insert event)may not be The Gospel Ttuth, or that you could be more proficient in some ways(For the simple fact that ALL of us could be)though... Well, sharing with the rest of us is more meritless than EmRata sunbathing in an abaya as opposed to her bare flesh, whenever she's on Instagram

"Second, you should go out to meet women rather than just socialize"

One does so for his personal health(physical and emotional), first and foremost: Spending 98% of our lives indoors binging The Avengers saga for the 8,000,000,000th time, rather than being outside in the sunlight, has ravaged T-Levels throughout The Post-Industrial World. And unless your goal is to spend your later years singing a song like this

(No diss to Cash... Dude was The Man), it's astute to develop and maintain social connections. A byproduct of doing so is often snagging lots of cool chicks


"One thing I have noticed in communities like this is that a man cannot show his weaknesses and be vulnerable"

No, that's fine, PROVIDED that whoever is doing so is game to actually remedy whatever difficulty he's having. This isn't just true for men either... Women who whine incessantly aren't remotely attractive

 

[Divorced w 3]

Full Measures, Pure.......lol....here ya go.........

You also fabricated stories, lied about your success and admitted it. ;-) Keep it real dude. 100%

Damn my man John Wayne said he’s keeping it 100. Ouch

 

[Divorced w 3]

One thing I have noticed in communities like this is that a man cannot show his weaknesses and be vulnerable. I feel for legit incels that want to get better, they will just have predatory dudes on here trying to sell them coaching or have guys gaslighting them into going for ugly and busted girls. Similarly, you can't post actual field reports and show the various things men have to go through to get laid and have success, you can't show how tough it is to actually get that success.

Everyone wants the finished recipe but no one wants the process of what it takes to get there and the heartache. Everyone wants the perfect ending and that picture perfect lay report but no one wants to hear how many nights out and how grueling the process of learning Game can be.

Once you show what it truly takes, all the fake alphas and knowitall keyboard jockeys on here come to criticize and gaslight you.

I don’t think this is true at all. It sounds like you are projecting your own issues.

You give no credit to the ability of the average man to pull himself up on his own accord and motivate himself to read, ask questions, try and learn.