Yeah, most men would be preoccupied because most men have no social and dating life. That's why when they see an attractive girl they stop, stare, etc. like this is something that you have never seen on a recurring basis?
I just believe there's a time and place for everything. Just like when I'm at work or in professional circles, I see scores of attractive women but I'm not HERE to hit on anybody and if the girl (or girls) aren't receptive to me hitting on them (which you can never forecast), then that can turn out to be a disaster in terms of professional relations.
Just like when I go to my favorite restaurant, I don't hit on the waitress or the girl at the window lol. Again, she might like me and she might not, if she doesn't, then that hurts my ability to continue getting good service when I return there.
Why don't guys just set a time out on the side and then do all of your sarging, approaching, etc., during that time period? Do it in a way to where you can play the numbers game where you would approach about 20 women and get 5 numbers, and from those 5 numbers get about 2 dates and fvck close 1 of them? That's how I do it. It allows me to play the numbers game and when a chick isn't interested, then it just STOPS there, it doesn't cross over to messing up my professional network or the service I'm expecting when I visit a small business.
You see where I'm getting at with this?