“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This NOFAP is something serious

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Genos

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Gotta agree with OP here - by removing the side outlet for sexual release, you just get more and more motivated to improve your own game and skill with women.

I've gone without fapping for up to a month at one point, and there was a noticeable difference >_> Approach anxiety was a thing of the past, I was making strong eye contact with every girl who walked by that wasn't buried in their iphone, hot damn it's great - confidence abound.

Even if it's all in your head, it's worth a try to see how you feel if you go an extended duration without rubbing one out. If nothing else (though I'm sure it has other positive effects), it's a exercise in building willpower/self-control.
 

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It is a testament to willpower self control. I am on week 3....to be honest my little guy is still not moving.....I have had erections from dreams though and when I thought about a hot I was banging. But other then that my little guy is asleep. I noticed I had 3 wet dreams so far.....I use to be bad fapper. Like the guy in the movie don jon it was bad. Talking about 3-4 times a day for 15 years
 

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PeasantPlayer said:
It is a testament to willpower self control. I am on week 3....to be honest my little guy is still not moving.....I have had erections from dreams though and when I thought about a hot I was banging. But other then that my little guy is asleep. I noticed I had 3 wet dreams so far.....I use to be bad fapper. Like the guy in the movie don jon it was bad. Talking about 3-4 times a day for 15 years

Same boat. Constantly thinking about sex. Constantly thinking about slamming when I see a hot female.

Do you think it is beneficial to try the NO FAP? I am afraid ill be an amplified sex nut.....I had a scare recently with not being able to get hard because I over used my dik, and was exhausted...real embarrassing.

What about busting early? Do you guys experience that with the no fap? Does it help with staying harder longer?
 

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I'm going to keep going....little guy needs a rest I beat the hell out of him. I'm still getting erections from dreams so I know its not ED. And I can get myself hard more with my imagination then having porn do it for me. But other then that its dead lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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There is a book by David Deida called "The Way of the Superior Man", which draws on a lot of no fap. It is a really useful book. Edging can be useful on this challenge as it keeps the sphincter muscles in condition. Being on No fap can be described as one big orgasasm.
 

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I think since I stopped masturbating I am getting a lot of wet dreams, its been a little over a month...anyone else have this experience?
 

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PeasantPlayer said:
I think since I stopped masturbating I am getting a lot of wet dreams, its been a little over a month...anyone else have this experience?
Day 70. Did it twice before but only lasted 7 and 15 days. Prolly about 100 days without porn.
Yes Peasant player, in fact last month I cumed a few times in dreams, the first time around the 30 days, I think was a real big bust.
Realized how bad is to fap without cumming, the time I lasted 7 days it was because I was doing that and I felt my balls were hurting and I felt something on them, I was scared so I tried cumming it out.
I used to feel really hornier but now I´m just kind of not feeling any hungry about women, I agree with gaining strong eye contact and confidence with both men and women, but it´s as if my interest in women is lower than a month ago, I think i´m on what they call the flatline.
Anyway I still get hard easily while thinking about banging them, which I dind´t do before stopping porn.
 

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yea, peasant is clearly on flatline, it's not a challenge if ur not getting hard lol.
i just recently had the same case, it also happened for the first time in my life.. been a pretty bad fapped for years, but at some point my dude just stopped working as usual.. that flatline lasted for about a month, everything is back to old "normal." my girl is coming next week, but nothing will happen sex wise between us for a very long period so... back to old stuff, but taking it very easy and no porn at all
 

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I feel I am flatlining at Day 18, haven't had any nocturnals at all this time. Before that I went for a few weeks and busted a nut only occaissionally, once doing an exercise at the gym and another on my bike. Have been edging slightly from time to time, this time have been more disciplined. Most definetly helps me in the gym, as I feel I am using this to channel into my weight training, while I am using supplements like Pre-workouts and test-boosters etc, feel pretty confident that going on no-fap stretches helps with my fitness levels.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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