dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
Do itDhoulmagus said:I I will just lose it and rape a girl.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Do itDhoulmagus said:I I will just lose it and rape a girl.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
PeasantPlayer said:It is a testament to willpower self control. I am on week 3....to be honest my little guy is still not moving.....I have had erections from dreams though and when I thought about a hot I was banging. But other then that my little guy is asleep. I noticed I had 3 wet dreams so far.....I use to be bad fapper. Like the guy in the movie don jon it was bad. Talking about 3-4 times a day for 15 years
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Day 70. Did it twice before but only lasted 7 and 15 days. Prolly about 100 days without porn.PeasantPlayer said:I think since I stopped masturbating I am getting a lot of wet dreams, its been a little over a month...anyone else have this experience?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.