This newb feels like total sh*t

[UniqueSoul]

She's gonna be annoying you for some time no matter if you're gonna react somehow to her flirt (cos it really is flirt after all; different personalities-- different understanding of everything, incl. flirt), so if you don't wanna get into any relationship with her, you will need to "restore" your name. It's more for yourself, so you would stop calling yourself names, then ****ing up again, thinking what a ***** you are after that; but same ****, different day is not the best way outta this. Seems that you need TO PROVE that you are sth more that a subject who can be made fun of.
Playing is not insulting her feelings, but deceiving her about your feeling towards her (this is because of her, as it is probably clear awready) may be defined as one of the elements of playing with her. By being sarcastic (I'm kinda feeling a bit uncomfortabble when continously repeating things) you will step up to her, and this'll help you to stop being ****ed with non-stop; also you'll cool the **** off her ambitions as well.
When you have your hands free, and you're being thrown tomatoes at (seen to many movies 'bout medieval ages), dodging is the first good choise, isn't it?
And the second good choice is to catch one and smack it back straight to the face of this "smooth operator".

 

[UnexpectedTeen]

i have had some experience b4

for the she-is-pi$$ing-me-off-wif-kiss-my-ass-insults:
i think tat u should say how u feel.... insulted.... tell her tat she had insulted u, or she is being rude.

i had a gang of 4 gals, good friends wif them so i could do kino of diff levels of intimicy and flirtin wif them...... but soon after, they called me as one of their "sisters" (btw i am NOT a sissy)at 1st i was annoyed.... so i tell them i was angry then they stopped for a while..... it came back so soon i was shocked.... i had to think of a way to stop them... me rep in school is at stack!!!!

1st try......
slient treatment.......
dont gif a fvck bout wat they say....
guess wat.. it didnt work

2nd try..........
kino more!!! as soon as they say i was one of their "sis" i got up to them and put my hand around their waist (2 of them 1 to the left and 1 to the right)..... and say"we are good pals", i got to hug them hard(but not hurtin) hhold hands (though not gf/bf)

it didnt work....
3rd try......
pi$$ed, i tried more aggressive kino.... like messin up their hair(not tied) and pullin the rubberbands off(tied hair). strangle them(also not hurtin). get real close to their face(about 5 cm apart) and threaten to kill them if they speak of it again. testin my punches on their belly(mainly)(no pain involoved) other parts of their bodies too.....

the strangling works the best.... me prob solved....

as for u i suggest something like this:
gal: u are so gay
dj : u mean happy gay or gay gay?(happy=gay)
dj : if u think i am the gay gay type den u are wrong cause i am the happy gay type

dj: so u think i am gay huh?.... next time u gals and i can share a room and u dun need to afriad of anytihng(u should noe wat to do when alone wif gal/s in a room)

actions speak louder than words.
it's so loud that i cant hear what u are talking about!!


pls dun mind my english.... i hope u get some ideas.... btw pls tell if my ideas can work for u or wat u did to solve ur prob thankz.
over n out!

 

[UniqueSoul]

From the first glimpse, it seems like way overdone, Unexpected. But if it worked all well for you, congrats, even if these tactics look a bit odd. Nevermind. I doubt that applying this point of view to Attila's thinking in this situation will help anyhow- nor in straighting things out with the "target", nor it will make him on the top of the game.
Acting like you're in control of everything and everywhere doesn't mean you need to exaggerate and show that someone p***ed you off for good, now is it?
Gaining control sometimes is making them give it to ya gladly because your actions proved that to them, on the other hand, not sitting and waiting for sth that's not gonna happen.
If you think you're in control, you think you see it, you think that others think that way too-- check the whole situation out once more. Control isn't sth that you have always to think about, to keep it going or try to apply where you lack it. Controling means that your actions, your thinking and your attitude towards others work together as one to create an other natural side of you. Unseen, but powerful.
As long as you let them to influence you actions, your thinking and your attitude towards other, no control whatsoever will be gained.