"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This new girl I am seeing will not accept my advances.

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Okay this new girl I met is 33 years old and we have seen each other 3 times and i am questioning what is going on and if i should continue to pursue advice?

First time we hung out at my place talked and n stuff about dating and about women how they do games and bout women seen in the past it was cool I tried to kiss her at the end and she said I dont know where you been I just brushed it off and was alright.

2nd date was fun we went to the west end had dinner at a bar and drink and talked and i told her we going dutch and she said thats fine but next time we went out wanted me to pay if taking her out I just said ok not big deal.

3rd date we watched movie at my house i held her and got to rub on her n things like that on her leg and she said she had a sinus headache cold i said i can give you some medicine i got i gave her this small red pill which is sinus medicine and she said is this a drug to take advantage of me i laughed yeah right i said. i tried to kiss her on the couch after the movie during show we watching she said i dont do kissing i just said alright thats fine. I am trying to be cool about this but now I am scraching my head here I am not asking or mentioning this to her but anyone got any answers for me?

Could she have a disease? Could she slept around so much she wants to wait? Is she not attracted to me? I mean she texts me wants to hangout etc.. but does this explain?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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