"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This new girl I am seeing will not accept my advances.

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Okay this new girl I met is 33 years old and we have seen each other 3 times and i am questioning what is going on and if i should continue to pursue advice?

First time we hung out at my place talked and n stuff about dating and about women how they do games and bout women seen in the past it was cool I tried to kiss her at the end and she said I dont know where you been I just brushed it off and was alright.

2nd date was fun we went to the west end had dinner at a bar and drink and talked and i told her we going dutch and she said thats fine but next time we went out wanted me to pay if taking her out I just said ok not big deal.

3rd date we watched movie at my house i held her and got to rub on her n things like that on her leg and she said she had a sinus headache cold i said i can give you some medicine i got i gave her this small red pill which is sinus medicine and she said is this a drug to take advantage of me i laughed yeah right i said. i tried to kiss her on the couch after the movie during show we watching she said i dont do kissing i just said alright thats fine. I am trying to be cool about this but now I am scraching my head here I am not asking or mentioning this to her but anyone got any answers for me?

Could she have a disease? Could she slept around so much she wants to wait? Is she not attracted to me? I mean she texts me wants to hangout etc.. but does this explain?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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