"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This makes sense...

JohnChops

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This just popped into head and seemed like it made a lot of sense to me so I thought I would share it on here. Well I'm 19 so my generation is all about texting and holding conversations over text but wouldn't this set you up for failure on a date with this woman you've been texting 24/7? You talked so much over text that when you are in a date and find yourself without words you know exactly why ( I'm talking about paragraphs texted not lite chatter). So wouldn't it make sense to keep conversation short during text and use it sparingly and to set up dates to hangout ? Lemme here some input on this :rock:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ya well you can talk, but I think that as soon as you make an appointment for a date you can lay off the texting until the day comes that you meet.
 

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Ab-so-lut-ely.

But you'll be pleased to know that all PUAs are aware of this fact.

Also understand that it's not bad simply because you'll run out of conversation ideas. Rather, it's also because you don't want the woman to know a lot about you. That will lower her IL. You want to remain a mystery. Just because you don't spew out your life story over texts doesn't mean you can spew it out in words over the dinner table.
 

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sighsigh said:
Ab-so-lut-ely.

But you'll be pleased to know that all PUAs are aware of this fact.

Also understand that it's not bad simply because you'll run out of conversation ideas. Rather, it's also because you don't want the woman to know a lot about you. That will lower her IL. You want to remain a mystery. Just because you don't spew out your life story over texts doesn't mean you can spew it out in words over the dinner table.
I figured many PUAs knew this ha figures I just find out about this :eek: , but adding that extra mystery by not spilling your life out on the table is a plus :rockon: so what should you text a girl then ?
 
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