"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This makes sense...

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This just popped into head and seemed like it made a lot of sense to me so I thought I would share it on here. Well I'm 19 so my generation is all about texting and holding conversations over text but wouldn't this set you up for failure on a date with this woman you've been texting 24/7? You talked so much over text that when you are in a date and find yourself without words you know exactly why ( I'm talking about paragraphs texted not lite chatter). So wouldn't it make sense to keep conversation short during text and use it sparingly and to set up dates to hangout ? Lemme here some input on this :rock:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ya well you can talk, but I think that as soon as you make an appointment for a date you can lay off the texting until the day comes that you meet.
 

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Ab-so-lut-ely.

But you'll be pleased to know that all PUAs are aware of this fact.

Also understand that it's not bad simply because you'll run out of conversation ideas. Rather, it's also because you don't want the woman to know a lot about you. That will lower her IL. You want to remain a mystery. Just because you don't spew out your life story over texts doesn't mean you can spew it out in words over the dinner table.
 

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sighsigh said:
Ab-so-lut-ely.

But you'll be pleased to know that all PUAs are aware of this fact.

Also understand that it's not bad simply because you'll run out of conversation ideas. Rather, it's also because you don't want the woman to know a lot about you. That will lower her IL. You want to remain a mystery. Just because you don't spew out your life story over texts doesn't mean you can spew it out in words over the dinner table.
I figured many PUAs knew this ha figures I just find out about this :eek: , but adding that extra mystery by not spilling your life out on the table is a plus :rockon: so what should you text a girl then ?
 
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