"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This makes me very sad

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ShizamDaMan

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Eh, give the dumbass kid a break who posted the list, he's only like 14.
 

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To hell with what someone says, take note of what they do.

I hope the 14 year-old fellow observes what's going on for himself, and comes to the same conclusion.
 

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I don't know, man...
that "student" of DeAngelo didn't represent all that well.
He just came across as a babbling, immature b*tch with a chip on his shoulder because he read through DYD once. Like "I know everything about women--look at everything I've READ!!!"

Just because you can parrot back something you read about women (and in DD's own writing style, I might add) doesn't make you good with women. I agree with the other poster's evaluation of "mike17"----my suspicion is that he doesn't know **** about women or dating...in fact, he came across as totally inexperienced.

No amount of @ss-spanking, neg-hits, and c&f is going to get you anywhere unless you can be interesting first. period.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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