"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This little piggy went to market...

Ridingthelightning

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College. Bio class. Auditorium style seating. Chick behind me put her feet on my chair, noticeably but not obtrusively. I turned around, eye contact, smile from both of us and I turned back around.
She was wearing flip flops. I tore a small piece of paper out and wrote on it...
"This little piggy went to market, this little piggy stayed home.
...Hi, I'm Scott, and I'm bored."

She laughed and small bit of writing back and forth ensued, but ended with me writing, "Stop distracting me in class"

Just thought I'd share.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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prairiedog24

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I usually add the ";)" next to a neg like that so she knows you're fooling around with her.

Great story though.
 

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and did you get her number after class? I'll be disappointed if you didn't.
 

Julian

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thats it?

what is this 3rd fking grade
 

ENIGMA16

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She laughed and small bit of writing back and forth ensued, but ended with me writing, "Stop distracting me in class"
This was the perfect opportunity to get her number!!! You could have instead said "Stop distracting me in class; give me your number and you can distract me outside of class." or something to that effect.

Blown opportunity, but she could still be interested.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ridingthelightning

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Oh ye of little faith.
I did get the number, but I had nothing in common with her so I forgot it.
 
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