"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This little piggy went to market...

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Ridingthelightning

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College. Bio class. Auditorium style seating. Chick behind me put her feet on my chair, noticeably but not obtrusively. I turned around, eye contact, smile from both of us and I turned back around.
She was wearing flip flops. I tore a small piece of paper out and wrote on it...
"This little piggy went to market, this little piggy stayed home.
...Hi, I'm Scott, and I'm bored."

She laughed and small bit of writing back and forth ensued, but ended with me writing, "Stop distracting me in class"

Just thought I'd share.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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prairiedog24

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I usually add the ";)" next to a neg like that so she knows you're fooling around with her.

Great story though.
 
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and did you get her number after class? I'll be disappointed if you didn't.
 
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Julian

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thats it?

what is this 3rd fking grade
 
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She laughed and small bit of writing back and forth ensued, but ended with me writing, "Stop distracting me in class"
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This was the perfect opportunity to get her number!!! You could have instead said "Stop distracting me in class; give me your number and you can distract me outside of class." or something to that effect.

Blown opportunity, but she could still be interested.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Oh ye of little faith.
I did get the number, but I had nothing in common with her so I forgot it.
 
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