"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This Lady Calls Me

Gettinthere

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Ok this is a good one and need your opinion on this.

This lady calls me and my caller ID says private which her number didnt' appear making me think red flags.

I just came in from the outside when the phone rang I say hello, hello and she ask for my room mates name but I say this is (my name) and she then says I am the one she wants to talk too. She then says this is (her name) and I am like who? She repeats her name and says we talked at Walmart about two months ago maybe 4 and I ask OK what do I look like she tells me I am tall and then tells my exact hair color. I ask her to discript herself and she says shes 5-7 130 with shoulder length black hair and I say I don't remember us talking. This went on and she wanted to know if we could get together sometime. So not feeling this phone call is for real I tell her the next time she sees me to wave or just walk up to me and introduce herself and she says OK and apolizes for the call and we say bye.

Now I have friends that will mess around with me at times making out like some one else but this is still hanging in the balance and not sure about this caller as if it were friends they would have already said something.

My question is, is 5-7 130 a good weight on a woman and have you ever gotten a call like this from someone you don't even know making out like you've talked before and asking you out?

It's a bit freaky to me and wonder what you all think on this and what it possibly means and did I do the right thing?

Gettinthere
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Desdinova

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You did the right thing. You don't know who was on the other end, or if she was put up to it by someone else. There is also the possibility that you have a stalker on your hands (yes, men can have stalkers too).

Keep your ears and eyes opened for the next little while, and see if anything else weird happens.
 

Gettinthere

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Desdinova said:
You did the right thing. You don't know who was on the other end, or if she was put up to it by someone else. There is also the possibility that you have a stalker on your hands (yes, men can have stalkers too).

Keep your ears and eyes opened for the next little while, and see if anything else weird happens.
That thought crossed my mind indeed. Good reply and I'll keep an ear and eye on this one.

Thanks

Gettinthere
 
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