"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This Lady Calls Me

Gettinthere

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Ok this is a good one and need your opinion on this.

This lady calls me and my caller ID says private which her number didnt' appear making me think red flags.

I just came in from the outside when the phone rang I say hello, hello and she ask for my room mates name but I say this is (my name) and she then says I am the one she wants to talk too. She then says this is (her name) and I am like who? She repeats her name and says we talked at Walmart about two months ago maybe 4 and I ask OK what do I look like she tells me I am tall and then tells my exact hair color. I ask her to discript herself and she says shes 5-7 130 with shoulder length black hair and I say I don't remember us talking. This went on and she wanted to know if we could get together sometime. So not feeling this phone call is for real I tell her the next time she sees me to wave or just walk up to me and introduce herself and she says OK and apolizes for the call and we say bye.

Now I have friends that will mess around with me at times making out like some one else but this is still hanging in the balance and not sure about this caller as if it were friends they would have already said something.

My question is, is 5-7 130 a good weight on a woman and have you ever gotten a call like this from someone you don't even know making out like you've talked before and asking you out?

It's a bit freaky to me and wonder what you all think on this and what it possibly means and did I do the right thing?

Gettinthere
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Desdinova

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You did the right thing. You don't know who was on the other end, or if she was put up to it by someone else. There is also the possibility that you have a stalker on your hands (yes, men can have stalkers too).

Keep your ears and eyes opened for the next little while, and see if anything else weird happens.
 

Gettinthere

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Desdinova said:
You did the right thing. You don't know who was on the other end, or if she was put up to it by someone else. There is also the possibility that you have a stalker on your hands (yes, men can have stalkers too).

Keep your ears and eyes opened for the next little while, and see if anything else weird happens.
That thought crossed my mind indeed. Good reply and I'll keep an ear and eye on this one.

Thanks

Gettinthere
 
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