Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When people generally say they don't do something, that usually means they are doing it. (lording it over others, not secretly banging).
My foreign wife wants me to f/ck her every night. Maybe you should look there.Desdinova said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
This is strange. I've heard of Christians abstaining during "courtship", but never during marriage. In fact, most Christians I know got married just so they could have sex with a clear conscience.Desdinova said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Well said. And agree 100% with this.Atom Smasher said:
Faith is just abandoning critical thinking and accepting strange claims without any evidence, right? How does one mock such a thing?
Extra funny here because even christians thought it was real. When you come up with 20 silly things every day before breakfast and claim they're literal fact, AND claim that belief in the absence of any proof is a good thing, it's pretty difficult to tell the wheat from the chaff.
It is a joke. I worked with a guy who is a hardcore Christian, AFC but a nice guy. Married the first woman he banged, had 5 kids and lives in an apartment. Last I heard his wife got bored and wanted to taste new c/ck, he got depressed and lost tons of weight, and has removed himself from facebook. No idea how it turned out other than I saw his wife put up sexy pics of herself on facebook, maybe he is dead now. I quit the job a long time ago and lost touch.Driggs said: