This is why you always check a woman who gets out of line...

[marmel75]

Had an experience recently that shows the value of checking a woman who is either being disrespectful and/or crossing the line. I think what it shows is that there is nothing good that can come from letting a woman talk to you sideways...either for you or for her. There are some women out there who "like wearing the pants" and being the dominant figure in a relationship and look for a guy that is a doormat, so to speak. Not the kind of woman you want to be with, and in my situation that happened it was a "****" test to see if I was going to allow it...

Anyways, met this woman, hot Italian lady, awesome body, big natural perfect rack, thin waist, nice butt, pretty face...got her #, she had said at one point she was a firecracker...had texted her and not received anything back, waited a few days and here is the exchange:

Me: I thought I was getting a firecracker, but you seem more like a dud

Her: Stop! I'm just very busy! Sorry you feel that way

Me: Can't say I've ever been yelled at as a first response, I was being sarcastic but whatever

Her: No! It's NOT WHATEVER!! Use your BIG BOY words!! Say what you mean and mean what you say! I understand English very well!!

(At this point I was like oh hell **** no...I don't let a chick talk like this to my face, I'm damn sure not letting it happen via text)

Me: We can have this conversation face to face if you'd like, because I can guarentee you it damn sure wouldn't be going like this. You picked the wrong dude to be talking to like that.

Her: I love it!! I ****ing love it!! ;-)
(Pic sent by her of her standing in front of her mirror topless in a pair of jeans---and damn those things are nice, lol)

Me: love what??

Her: You dominance and security!! You're right...a woman should not be talking to a man like that!!

Her: I do that initially to weed out the weak. I want a man not a *****!!

Me: lol, oh so we are playing a game of chess now? I'm always down for a good game of chess...

Her: All my moves are calculating and methodical ;-)

(Getting the feeling she was one of those submissive chicks that I turned out to be right about)

Me: Although I don't know how much your chess is gonna help when I put you in the corner, grab your hair with one hand, so I can pull your head back, wrap my other arm around your neck, and then pound you until your knees buckle and you fall down onto a soaking wet floor and all the while I'm talking **** in your ear about how there is no where to go or run away to and you are just gonna have to ****ing take it... That's my chess game, still want to play? ;-)

Her: OMG ur PERFECT!!

Me: well, I dunno about perfect, but I am pretty damn awesome...and aggressive, lol

Her: and that's PERFECT! So when can I see you?

Me: I'm free after I get off work around 8

Her: ok, I'm at xxxxxxxxx...come over ;-)

Me: I guess I could do that...


Ended up having the hottest sex of my life for hours with this chick just pounding the hell out of her four or five times over the night...chick was wild and let me do whatever I wanted...well to be fair, I TOLD her what I was going to do and if she objected I just pulled her hair back hard or smacked her ass hard enough to leave handprints until she " obeyed", lol...just getting home this morning on a high...

Goes to show the value of never being a doormat...nothing good can come of it and there are chicks out there that get really turned on by a guy that doesn't take their BS...chick is crazy but I gotta hit that at least a few more times, lol...definitely not GF material tho...

 

[Skyline]

Me: I thought I was getting a firecracker, but you seem more like a dud

Her: Stop! I'm just very busy! Sorry you feel that way

Me: Can't say I've ever been yelled at as a first response, I was being sarcastic but whatever

If this were any other chick(especially one you had just met) you would have failed this test right there. None of that other stuff of being unacceptable would have mattered. What did you do wrong? Defending yourself! That implies that YOU were the "wrong" one here and that you're unsure of your own behavior. When in fact, you knew what you were doing.

This is a big error when it comes to texting that most people miss. Because you can't read body language or tone of voice you can literally take anything seriously or out of context. That's why when you text, it should be all about being playful. You should only be using seriousness if she says otherwise when messaging. But then again, why are you having a serious conversation over text?

In person, not tolerating this behavior and voicing it would of been perfectly acceptable. But like I quoted, if this were any other girl you would have failed. Don't let a girl, or anybody, second guess you like that. Indifference!

 

[Die Hard]

Congrats man. I Iove your story!

 

[marmel75]

I ain't got time for games.

Lol, who does? That's why I went hard to either cut to the chaste or get out if it wasn't gonna happen

 

[marmel75]

If this were any other chick(especially one you had just met) you would have failed this test right there. None of that other stuff of being unacceptable would have mattered. What did you do wrong? Defending yourself! That implies that YOU were the "wrong" one here and that you're unsure of your own behavior. When in fact, you knew what you were doing.

This is a big error when it comes to texting that most people miss. Because you can't read body language or tone of voice you can literally take anything seriously or out of context. That's why when you text, it should be all about being playful. You should only be using seriousness if she says otherwise when messaging. But then again, why are you having a serious conversation over text?

In person, not tolerating this behavior and voicing it would of been perfectly acceptable. But like I quoted, if this were any other girl you would have failed. Don't let a girl, or anybody, second guess you like that. Indifference!

Hmm, that is a valid point, but I didn't really consider it defending myself as much as doing a "roll my eyes", although it probably didn't end up coming out that way.

My texting works for me, but is sometimes unorthodox, usually sexual at least undertones and sometimes blatantly so...but it works...for me...others mileage might vary...I can't remember the last time I TT a woman on the phone

In our brief conversation we had in person which was about 5 mins or so she mentioned something about liking being challenged, which is why I started the text like that...almost like an intentional button push...in this instance it was just a read I got of her that turned out to be right...it is possible that the next read I make like that will be wrong, but I kind of rolled the dice on this one...sometimes you win big, sometimes you crap out...

 

[SgtSplacker]

Dude grats on this one you handled it perfectly. This is a perfect example of not being outcome dependent one of the cardinal rules of proper game.

 

[thatfeel]

too much talking

 

[Mike32ct]

Great FR.

 

[Greasy Pig]

As I always say: NEVER be afraid of offending a woman.
I don't advocate biting back as hard as the OP did but there is a lot of merit in sticking up for yourself and not bring a pushover.
What this bytch said is true: women want a man, not a pvssy.

 

[VladPatton]

What's interesting is how many guys would of went NC after this line:

Her: No! It's NOT WHATEVER!! Use your BIG BOY words!! Say what you mean and mean what you say! I understand English very well!!

But because you just didn't give a shıt, everything turned around for you and you got to bang some sweet ass. Well done.

 

[foreverAFC]

marmel, are you still married?

 

[marmel75]

Nope, been divorced a few months now and been laying these ho's out, lol