"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is why online/facebook game sucks! (halp!)

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This girl is a family friend of ours, she lives kinda far but in the following months she might move to my city and I want to be able to give her the warm welcome ;)

Anyways this morning she was at my house, I just flirted with her a bit, but then her and her dad must go so quickly just went and added each other on facebook (top that, I didnt shower just rolled out of bed unshaven and all lol) we were at the couch with our iphones out lmao

Anyways I emailed her at lunch

Me: Ei, number?
Her: :p

No idea how else to react/respond to this lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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shoulda got her number when she was in the room with you. be a man and message her to give you her number. Overcomplicating things smh
 
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Just respond with "?"

There's laconic and then there's unnecessarily short. Your first message should have been more along the lines of "hey, we got cut short yesterday, what's your # I'll text you". If you want her number that is, but really it's not necessary with Facebook. FB is enough contact (since most people have smartphones now) to set up a date.

PS. your title is misleading, it should be "I suck at online/facebook game" not "online/facebook game sucks". Some of us do well.
 
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muscleman said:
Just respond with "?"

There's laconic and then there's unnecessarily short. Your first message should have been more along the lines of "hey, we got cut short yesterday, what's your # I'll text you". If you want her number that is, but really it's not necessary with Facebook. FB is enough contact (since most people have smartphones now) to set up a date.

PS. your title is misleading, it should be "I suck at online/facebook game" not "online/facebook game sucks". Some of us do well.
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Worked like a charm!

me: ?
her: hey tell your folks thanks for the coffee, and dad extends his thanks as well :)
me: only if u give me ur number first
her: lol 123456789


I gotta learn this thing lol Its not as comfortable, or good as gaming someone face to face, I cannot showcase my aloofness nor can I kino and whatnot :down: nor can I talk my way out of my ahem! physical imperfections (aesthetically speaking)
 
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