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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This is why online/facebook game sucks! (halp!)

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This girl is a family friend of ours, she lives kinda far but in the following months she might move to my city and I want to be able to give her the warm welcome ;)

Anyways this morning she was at my house, I just flirted with her a bit, but then her and her dad must go so quickly just went and added each other on facebook (top that, I didnt shower just rolled out of bed unshaven and all lol) we were at the couch with our iphones out lmao

Anyways I emailed her at lunch

Me: Ei, number?
Her: :p

No idea how else to react/respond to this lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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shoulda got her number when she was in the room with you. be a man and message her to give you her number. Overcomplicating things smh
 
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Just respond with "?"

There's laconic and then there's unnecessarily short. Your first message should have been more along the lines of "hey, we got cut short yesterday, what's your # I'll text you". If you want her number that is, but really it's not necessary with Facebook. FB is enough contact (since most people have smartphones now) to set up a date.

PS. your title is misleading, it should be "I suck at online/facebook game" not "online/facebook game sucks". Some of us do well.
 
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muscleman said:
Just respond with "?"

There's laconic and then there's unnecessarily short. Your first message should have been more along the lines of "hey, we got cut short yesterday, what's your # I'll text you". If you want her number that is, but really it's not necessary with Facebook. FB is enough contact (since most people have smartphones now) to set up a date.

PS. your title is misleading, it should be "I suck at online/facebook game" not "online/facebook game sucks". Some of us do well.
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Worked like a charm!

me: ?
her: hey tell your folks thanks for the coffee, and dad extends his thanks as well :)
me: only if u give me ur number first
her: lol 123456789


I gotta learn this thing lol Its not as comfortable, or good as gaming someone face to face, I cannot showcase my aloofness nor can I kino and whatnot :down: nor can I talk my way out of my ahem! physical imperfections (aesthetically speaking)
 
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