This is what happens when you suck in bed...

[sazc]

I think communication should occur and both should be open to exploration.

Agree wholly. I missed the idea about exploration if you mentioned it in the past.

All I was saying is that, she should be able to help him learn what she finds pleasurable, and vice versa, esp if he's not hitting it organically. In fact, I could see this kind of successful communication leading to the trust necessary to push the envelope and explore.

If soneones not happy with the baseline, they may be hard pressed to push the envelope, assuming their needs still won't be met. Au contraire, if someones not happy with the baseline, that person may be eager to push the envelope in the hopes of possibly getting their needs met.

Ahhh the beauty of diff ppl.

 

[VladPatton]

Extremely important factor.

I'll say this, if she puts you in "beta bux" zone she won't even allow you to satisfy her because she now has a mental block that you're asexual. Its the female version of Madonna/wh0re complex.

The Beta-Chump Complex hahah