"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
This is what happens when a man doesnt have a women in there life (PICS)
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Julius_Seizeher
Master Don Juan
Reminds me of a high school story. My buddy's family had this old farmhouse down the road that they rented to a hilljack. Well, the hilljack moved out and we used it as a party pad. One time we got buzzed and took turns driving a bobcat through the house, until the entire back of the house collapsed on top of ol Reggie, but that bobcat came crashing out of the rubble in all its glory.
If there's any kids reading, DON'T DO THIS. We should've been killed.
What will happen to the rest of you.
I did that s--- for ten years. Never again. My kids get my money now. Let their mother and her chump of a husband take care of them.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Quiksilver
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Well if you're going to go this far, might as well go the whole way.Alle_Gory said:
This is what happens when a man doesnt have a women in there life
This is what happens when a man doesn't have a woman in his life.
While proper grammar is important, as long as it's understandable I don't think it matters on the internet. At least not to me ... Besides, grammar police are annoying.
Nygard
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I know what you mean and I rarely point out proper spelling. But to me it's really annoying when you're so uneducated that you don't even know your own native language to spell a title.Quiksilver said:
I could have gone further with my spell check, but I figured it might have been too much. Thanks for the rest of the corrections Quiksilver.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.