"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This is what happens when a man doesnt have a women in there life (PICS)
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Julius_Seizeher
Master Don Juan
Reminds me of a high school story. My buddy's family had this old farmhouse down the road that they rented to a hilljack. Well, the hilljack moved out and we used it as a party pad. One time we got buzzed and took turns driving a bobcat through the house, until the entire back of the house collapsed on top of ol Reggie, but that bobcat came crashing out of the rubble in all its glory.
If there's any kids reading, DON'T DO THIS. We should've been killed.
What will happen to the rest of you.
I did that s--- for ten years. Never again. My kids get my money now. Let their mother and her chump of a husband take care of them.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Quiksilver
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Well if you're going to go this far, might as well go the whole way.Alle_Gory said:
This is what happens when a man doesnt have a women in there life
This is what happens when a man doesn't have a woman in his life.
While proper grammar is important, as long as it's understandable I don't think it matters on the internet. At least not to me ... Besides, grammar police are annoying.
Nygard
Senior Don Juan
I know what you mean and I rarely point out proper spelling. But to me it's really annoying when you're so uneducated that you don't even know your own native language to spell a title.Quiksilver said:
I could have gone further with my spell check, but I figured it might have been too much. Thanks for the rest of the corrections Quiksilver.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.