"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is what every moment here works up to!!!! read now!!

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On that note, the most important message here is to be your own man and to live your own life. Dont let people tell you what to do or what to think and to strive everyday to be the best YOU you can possibly be. If u have those things what do u need from here? 80% of the information on here is about how women play games when you should not be playing any games with them ever. Honestly I dont give a hoot about any game. If a girl is going to play a game eventually she will be playing it by herself. I am not perfect but I am a great MAN. and thats what matters. You dont have to be perfect, you just have to have the will and the confidence to be great. Never give up, never give in, and enjoy it (life). As for me I am off to the wisconsin dells as it is my woman's B-day and we love waterparks and skiing.
Have fun guys!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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speed dawg

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It's 20 degrees outside dude. Waterpark?
 

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I've been to Wisconsin dells. Awesome place!
 

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Good point. The underlying theme of this whole site is to live your life to the fullest, put yourself before any woman, and never accept bullsh1t or disrespect.
 

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Bottomline is this.... from TheLadiesMan. :D

Speak the truth, speak what's on your mind, and be honest, even if it may not be what they want to hear... if she's being a nagging, cry baby, whining, b*tch, tell her. Spare her the "nice guy", for a change.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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speed dawg said:
It's 20 degrees outside dude. Waterpark?
haha indoor of course. it was fun. rent a condo from tamerack if you ever go. Huge one bedroom condos in the woods with backyard, barbecue, fireplace, kitchen, whirlpool bathtub, indoor swimming and all kinds of stuff for only $112 a night. better then motel 6 ($99 a night).
 
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