"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is what every moment here works up to!!!! read now!!

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On that note, the most important message here is to be your own man and to live your own life. Dont let people tell you what to do or what to think and to strive everyday to be the best YOU you can possibly be. If u have those things what do u need from here? 80% of the information on here is about how women play games when you should not be playing any games with them ever. Honestly I dont give a hoot about any game. If a girl is going to play a game eventually she will be playing it by herself. I am not perfect but I am a great MAN. and thats what matters. You dont have to be perfect, you just have to have the will and the confidence to be great. Never give up, never give in, and enjoy it (life). As for me I am off to the wisconsin dells as it is my woman's B-day and we love waterparks and skiing.
Have fun guys!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's 20 degrees outside dude. Waterpark?
 

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I've been to Wisconsin dells. Awesome place!
 

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Good point. The underlying theme of this whole site is to live your life to the fullest, put yourself before any woman, and never accept bullsh1t or disrespect.
 

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Bottomline is this.... from TheLadiesMan. :D

Speak the truth, speak what's on your mind, and be honest, even if it may not be what they want to hear... if she's being a nagging, cry baby, whining, b*tch, tell her. Spare her the "nice guy", for a change.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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speed dawg said:
It's 20 degrees outside dude. Waterpark?
haha indoor of course. it was fun. rent a condo from tamerack if you ever go. Huge one bedroom condos in the woods with backyard, barbecue, fireplace, kitchen, whirlpool bathtub, indoor swimming and all kinds of stuff for only $112 a night. better then motel 6 ($99 a night).
 
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