MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What about an ugly white woman and a beautiful black woman?NY Times doing propaganda. Reminds me of Patrice O’Neal stand up mentioning the value of a woman. How long she’ll be in the news in case she went missing. A beautiful white woman stays weeks while an ugly black one only 15 seconds.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Guess it depends on their sexual orientation, race is so demodè...it's so 20th century.What about an ugly white woman and a beautiful black woman?
Really? Because I could have sworn it's been being shoved down our throats this century.Guess it depends on their sexual orientation, race is so demodè...it's so 20th century.
Yes, but it’s only being used by certain factions in an effort to destabilize our society.Really? Because I could have sworn it's been being shoved down our throats this century.
Ugly white woman (obese with tattoos) might be the same as the typical black woman. 15 seconds.What about an ugly white woman and a beautiful black woman?
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