MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What about an ugly white woman and a beautiful black woman?NY Times doing propaganda. Reminds me of Patrice O’Neal stand up mentioning the value of a woman. How long she’ll be in the news in case she went missing. A beautiful white woman stays weeks while an ugly black one only 15 seconds.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Guess it depends on their sexual orientation, race is so demodè...it's so 20th century.What about an ugly white woman and a beautiful black woman?
Really? Because I could have sworn it's been being shoved down our throats this century.Guess it depends on their sexual orientation, race is so demodè...it's so 20th century.
Yes, but it’s only being used by certain factions in an effort to destabilize our society.Really? Because I could have sworn it's been being shoved down our throats this century.
Ugly white woman (obese with tattoos) might be the same as the typical black woman. 15 seconds.What about an ugly white woman and a beautiful black woman?
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