"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is the best text/email/line/etc I have ever..

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What will be a good answer to this? I know its a silly question but I have gotten this a lot lately and after writing diff responses, I wonder what you guys do when this comes up?

I go with ".. I didn't get the texter of the year award for nothing", or "you probably say it to all the boys", or "..haha if this is the case you really need to find better texting partners"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She gave you a compliment. No need to retort another ****y line back to her. Thank her like a normal person, then move the conversation to something flirty/sexual.

-Scars
 

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pinhas said:
What will be a good answer to this? I know its a silly question but I have gotten this a lot lately and after writing diff responses, I wonder what you guys do when this comes up?

I go with ".. I didn't get the texter of the year award for nothing", or "you probably say it to all the boys", or "..haha if this is the case you really need to find better texting partners"
Boss, I'd advise you to play it cool. Have an attitude that reminisces a sort of "everything I say deserves to be laminated and placed in a museum."--- It's a ****y mentality, but it should be wrapped up in natural coolness. Like, that's just the usual... Nothing new; I'm not surprised she said that.. Be relaxed with it.

But this, "I didn't get the texter of the year award for nothing"

C'mon, man..... You're trying too hard...That's probably the most cliche sentence structure in the history of mankind. Grab a glass of water; relax, man..

It's one thing to have natural cleverness... But the fact that you've come to these forums,wrote down three different versions of a response you're thinking of giving her, already says you're thinking over the top with it---it's a forced effort of cleverness.

Play it off.. Reply with "Yeah, [start new topic]".

From my experience, the girl then, some time later down the line, will try and phish compliments out of you, hoping you reciprocate the kind of compliment she gave you above.
 
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