Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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pinhas

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What will be a good answer to this? I know its a silly question but I have gotten this a lot lately and after writing diff responses, I wonder what you guys do when this comes up?

I go with ".. I didn't get the texter of the year award for nothing", or "you probably say it to all the boys", or "..haha if this is the case you really need to find better texting partners"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She gave you a compliment. No need to retort another ****y line back to her. Thank her like a normal person, then move the conversation to something flirty/sexual.

-Scars
 

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pinhas said:
What will be a good answer to this? I know its a silly question but I have gotten this a lot lately and after writing diff responses, I wonder what you guys do when this comes up?

I go with ".. I didn't get the texter of the year award for nothing", or "you probably say it to all the boys", or "..haha if this is the case you really need to find better texting partners"
Boss, I'd advise you to play it cool. Have an attitude that reminisces a sort of "everything I say deserves to be laminated and placed in a museum."--- It's a ****y mentality, but it should be wrapped up in natural coolness. Like, that's just the usual... Nothing new; I'm not surprised she said that.. Be relaxed with it.

But this, "I didn't get the texter of the year award for nothing"

C'mon, man..... You're trying too hard...That's probably the most cliche sentence structure in the history of mankind. Grab a glass of water; relax, man..

It's one thing to have natural cleverness... But the fact that you've come to these forums,wrote down three different versions of a response you're thinking of giving her, already says you're thinking over the top with it---it's a forced effort of cleverness.

Play it off.. Reply with "Yeah, [start new topic]".

From my experience, the girl then, some time later down the line, will try and phish compliments out of you, hoping you reciprocate the kind of compliment she gave you above.
 
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