"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This is such a noob question to ask, but...

jericg

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How exactly do you ask out a girl from your school? Where? When? What?
Ive had a gf before, but we were already hugging and holding hands before it was official :( In truth, I have small amounts of DJ skills at school. Its weird to have one because you will always see the girls that rejected you or have not really talked much with in high school.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alvafe

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start to think like you ask ehr out, if she say not? HER LOSS, ask another.

keep this on mind its SHE who LOSE not going out with you not you,

so again she says no? HER LOSS, moving on
 

Nino-Tk

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Yeah, I had that exact problem hit me when I was in school, feel like a DJ outside school but inside I felt less of a DJ, sometimes it would even be vice versa. I'm a direct guy so that meant I had to deal with the consequences of being in a small high school (less than 900 students.)

So, I was still direct but I would alter my language a bit, instead of X-rated talk, I'd tone it down PG-13. Still direct but the wording is, hehe, somewhat more romantic. So, yeah, go for it, if you don't mind seeing chicks that have rejected you on a daily basis, just tell them what you want and stop thinking for them, think for you, you are the most important person.
 
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