"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is such a noob question to ask, but...

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How exactly do you ask out a girl from your school? Where? When? What?
Ive had a gf before, but we were already hugging and holding hands before it was official :( In truth, I have small amounts of DJ skills at school. Its weird to have one because you will always see the girls that rejected you or have not really talked much with in high school.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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start to think like you ask ehr out, if she say not? HER LOSS, ask another.

keep this on mind its SHE who LOSE not going out with you not you,

so again she says no? HER LOSS, moving on
 
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Yeah, I had that exact problem hit me when I was in school, feel like a DJ outside school but inside I felt less of a DJ, sometimes it would even be vice versa. I'm a direct guy so that meant I had to deal with the consequences of being in a small high school (less than 900 students.)

So, I was still direct but I would alter my language a bit, instead of X-rated talk, I'd tone it down PG-13. Still direct but the wording is, hehe, somewhat more romantic. So, yeah, go for it, if you don't mind seeing chicks that have rejected you on a daily basis, just tell them what you want and stop thinking for them, think for you, you are the most important person.
 
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