"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is such a noob question to ask, but...

jericg

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How exactly do you ask out a girl from your school? Where? When? What?
Ive had a gf before, but we were already hugging and holding hands before it was official :( In truth, I have small amounts of DJ skills at school. Its weird to have one because you will always see the girls that rejected you or have not really talked much with in high school.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alvafe

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start to think like you ask ehr out, if she say not? HER LOSS, ask another.

keep this on mind its SHE who LOSE not going out with you not you,

so again she says no? HER LOSS, moving on
 

Nino-Tk

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Yeah, I had that exact problem hit me when I was in school, feel like a DJ outside school but inside I felt less of a DJ, sometimes it would even be vice versa. I'm a direct guy so that meant I had to deal with the consequences of being in a small high school (less than 900 students.)

So, I was still direct but I would alter my language a bit, instead of X-rated talk, I'd tone it down PG-13. Still direct but the wording is, hehe, somewhat more romantic. So, yeah, go for it, if you don't mind seeing chicks that have rejected you on a daily basis, just tell them what you want and stop thinking for them, think for you, you are the most important person.
 
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