"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is really the best way to get better if you're not good looking

skinnyguy

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Social status.

Yes, working out helps, but let's face it some people could work out all day and still not pull hot girls.

If you're isolated from people that severely hurts your game. What RSD fails to realize (or maybe they do and don't give a fvck) is that these guys usually go home from bootcamp exactly how they started because they didn't develop social circle game and just learned a bunch of cheesy lines.

Focusing less on women and more on broadening your social circle pays HUGE dividends. I mean if you're with a big group of friends at a bar your chance of pulling go way up. Also your overall mood gets better which allows you to open more females and they get a good vibe from you.

Some guys might have a lot of money but if their social vibe is off they'll have problems.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Young OG

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I agree. This is one thing I'm lacking. I'm not bad looking, but I don't have a lot of friends. I used to live in another state and was in a 7 year ltr. Now I'm single again. Most of my friends don't want to do anything ever. So if I go to a bar, I'm usually with 1 friend, who is far from a DJ. It sucks but I work a lot and have my kid 5 days a week. So I don't have time to make friends.
 

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Doesn't really matter who you're with when you approach girls at bars or anywhere. If the people you're with don't know how to DJ chances are you won't know either. Sure having a lot of people gets that nervous feeling of approaching girls to go away,but if they know nothing about being a DJ then it's pointless.
 
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