"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is really the best way to get better if you're not good looking

skinnyguy

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Social status.

Yes, working out helps, but let's face it some people could work out all day and still not pull hot girls.

If you're isolated from people that severely hurts your game. What RSD fails to realize (or maybe they do and don't give a fvck) is that these guys usually go home from bootcamp exactly how they started because they didn't develop social circle game and just learned a bunch of cheesy lines.

Focusing less on women and more on broadening your social circle pays HUGE dividends. I mean if you're with a big group of friends at a bar your chance of pulling go way up. Also your overall mood gets better which allows you to open more females and they get a good vibe from you.

Some guys might have a lot of money but if their social vibe is off they'll have problems.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I agree. This is one thing I'm lacking. I'm not bad looking, but I don't have a lot of friends. I used to live in another state and was in a 7 year ltr. Now I'm single again. Most of my friends don't want to do anything ever. So if I go to a bar, I'm usually with 1 friend, who is far from a DJ. It sucks but I work a lot and have my kid 5 days a week. So I don't have time to make friends.
 

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Doesn't really matter who you're with when you approach girls at bars or anywhere. If the people you're with don't know how to DJ chances are you won't know either. Sure having a lot of people gets that nervous feeling of approaching girls to go away,but if they know nothing about being a DJ then it's pointless.
 
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