I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
This site should be renamed becomean*******.com
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Falcon25 said:Hahaha. You just wrote me a love letter. That's right bitcvh daddy's home now give me that sweet little ass of yours. Haha I can't stop laughing. There are girls who write me just as long letters. I was right about homosexuals in these forums. I would make you my *****. You are so gay. This is why anyone w any sense should leave te forums. Not only is this guy full blown homosexual but he is mentally ill. Look what he wrote me. Someone who he has never met. Gonna tap that ass of yours you little fa ggot. I probably ****ed your mom too. Haha. You sure are young enough to be my kid. You've been here two weeks monkey boy. With a name like Elmer. You are bound to be gay. Haha. Fagg wrote me a love letter. Go try to steal other mens girlfriends. Or maybe you want the men? Haha you're so gay. Haha can't stop laughing. See you monkey boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
stfuKarmaSutra said:(Homo-erotic soap opera narrator's lisp: ) "On this episode of: Green Dot High..."
U mad?Falcon25 said:ELMER GANTRY
You have been on these forums for less than a month and you have the audacity to talk behind my back? You are a loser man. I have more success with women than you can imagine. You are a loser. I would make you my ***** in real life. I would make you go down on me in a crowded room and have snack afterwards. You have been here for two weeks you fuvking monkey. I'm leaving the forums because I don't have the patience for idiots like you. I don't need the forum. I do great with women. You have been here two weeks you monkey. Two weeks. Try not to talk behind people's back. I do expect that from you though, afterall, you're the guy who can't get his own girlfriend and tries to steal other peoples girls.
Peace
Lol, I bet he's a basement dweller who's frustrated as he is tired of seeing DJs in the sex videos he masturbates to.PrettyBoyAJ said:Your 34 years old. Please be more mature.
I guess, but my point was made.Social_Leper said:Elmer you really need to learn to summarize your thoughts in a more concise way. Your walls of text are hurting my eyes.
yes he has, he sends me PM's now saying the same stuff lol. yes, i agree, very beta indeed, that was apparent to me from most of his writings on here, a beta in alpha's clothing. guess he can't obtain women regularly so this is why we get all this anger and frustration....sadSolomon said:this guy lost it and is as beta as they come....
...Falcon25 said:I care about homosexual men
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Here's why you're so full of pent up Lord of the C0ckrings homosexual yearning:SamTheHobit said:stfu
Alle_Gory said:Pretty sure he never said this. Hey Elmer Fudd, quit being a little faggot. He called you out, and you ran away like a little b*tch. Now you're trying to slander?
Just proves you're a little insecure b*tch. Take your nonsense to PMs if you must.
Nope. When I see BS, I call it out.ELMER_GANTRY said:Could this be falcon's alias?
Based on your behaviour on the forums, what did you expect? If you're going to be an absolutist then prepare for resistance.Falcon25 said:I don't mind people disagree about what I say, but no need to call people names, and send rude private messages.
Opinions are like *******s. Ever hear that one? Most people have opinions, if you want people to listen then: 1. Present supporting evidence. 2. Make it easy to read and understand. 3. Chill out when people disagree. If you really believe in your words then you don't implode whenever someone disagrees or makes a counter argument. That's weak.When someone doesn't respect another's opinion, no need to give it.
Falcon25 said:I want to say good luck to everyone over the last two years who gave me some good advice, especially Backbreaker, and Jophil. I try to give advice but everytime I create a new thread about a certain topic, I get called names, told in private messages to go fuvk myself, etc. I don't mind people disagree about what I say, but no need to call people names, and send rude private messages.
This community has three types of members;
1) Those who need help and genuine about giving advice.
2) Those who don't know how to read and then write about something that has nothing to do with anything we're talking about (severe reading comprehension problems).
3) Those who are homosexuals but claim to be straight and try to get a rise out of people (there are also females here that pose as men).
The 2nd and 3rd category make it almost impossible to give advice. It becomes pointless when people are yelling and screaming at you. When someone doesn't respect another's opinion, no need to give it.
I want to wish all of you luck and wish you the best. Be careful who you listen to. Stay away from unavailable women, take things SLOW with women, and make them swoon for you. Any fool can get laid, but it takes a man to make them fall in love with you. Your goal should always be (once you master everything else) is to make any woman you want, to fall for you. Any idiot can fuvk a woman. His classmate, a girl he works with, etc. Any fool can do this. But only the truly talented MEN make them fall in love with them. The only way you do that is by going SLOW. Go slow with women, work out, make money, and travel. Good Luck everyone!
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.