"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is messed up i gotta cut her off for real

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Let me just tell you all that right now im just straight up mad, as i have ever been in my fukin life so please ignore the gramatic errors as there will be a good amoung of them, since right now i just cant control my self.

This ***** came to my house, i called her earlier today telling her that i needed some booty or watever and she said ok just pick me up at 2 15 so at 2 15 i tell her that im outside she comes out to the car and we go home, we reach home now im all horny and hard she even grabs my ****, yet she says that she does not want to do nothing cause she has to go to work, BULLLLLLLL**** MAN!!!!!!!!!!1 BULLSHSIT she says that she does not want to be all sweaty when she goes to work but wait a minute!!! she was coming from work when she came to my house in workclothes and everything and she had to go back.

And anyways we have already fuked on a day that we both had to go to work afterwords so why this lame ass fukin excuse for?!!
i feel like exploding right now, on our way back she was playing around loking the car doors i couldnt control my self and told her to open the modafukin door, i felt like slapping her for real, as a matterfact she hold my arm and i just brutally swong it forward.

I was speeding all the way till i dropped her home when we reached she got out without saying a word .

Why is this ***** who is supposed to be my girlfriend and care about me as she says she does doing this bll**** to me??!! Man fuk her fuk her fuk her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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and yes just incase yall wondering yes i am letting out all my anger on here!!! Fuk this selfish ass ho fuk her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Wow, that sounds like a pretty severe case of desperation you have there!

The fact is she didn't want to have sex and she fed you a polite lie. That's not unusual for women, just like the cliched "headache" excuse.

She might even have been testing you to see how you would react or whether she was good for anything more than sex. Or there is a possibility that it was her time of the month.

I think you are overreacting and need to learn to control your sex drive before it controls you.
 

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Originally posted by Jariel
Wow, that sounds like a pretty severe case of desperation you have there!

The fact is she didn't want to have sex and she fed you a polite lie. That's not unusual for women, just like the cliched "headache" excuse.

She might even have been testing you to see how you would react or whether she was good for anything more than sex. Or there is a possibility that it was her time of the month.

I think you are overreacting and need to learn to control your sex drive before it controls you.
i agree.. all i'm getting out of this is the dude didn't get ass even though he had it earlier in the day and he got all pissed that he wants to break off the relationship.

check it

if you wanted a ho.. you probably picked the wrong girl, i'm sure there are plenty of girls that think just like you. in fact i know a few. :eek:
 

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This must be the girl you are getting engaged to. :rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by jakethasnake
This must be the girl you are getting engaged to. :rolleyes:
lol

what can you say, it was love at first sight the marrige isn't going to well though i don't see kids in the future for this couple
 

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lol come on now it is not me the one getting engage let that sink in your brains bfl does not want to get married until his late 50's early 60's matterfact make that early 60's.

but now that i calmed down and i think about what i did i was just plain stupid period, i overreacted when she could had been testing me or like u said it could be that time of the month as she told me a few days earlier that it was coming soon...

dam i think i got no choice but to apologize to her :(

dam its just my anger and my nerves its like when i get mad i cant control my mind it works alone or something.... i really think i need help in controling my anger not just in this situation but in general.
 

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My thoughts

I think if you appoligize, then you're an AFC......Why?

She played you. The Ho Bag lied, and you know it. If she wanted sex, then you could have ****ed her ON the job, let alone while she was on break. Not only that, but she knew what she was comming over for anyway. (booty)

If it were me, I'd come up missing for about 3 to 4 days, find me another 4 or 5 new *****es to approach and get your confidence back up, and forget the lying ho bag.

That's just me though, but don't let me fool you, I once was played and learned this hard lesson from it, if she's lying, forget her.

Just my $ .02.

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one of my friend appologize to a girl and lost her, whatever you do... dont say your sorry to a girl. You'll loose your power forever.
 

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Originally posted by thebsharp
one of my friend appologize to a girl and lost her, whatever you do... dont say your sorry to a girl. You'll loose your power forever.
the only power you lose is the power you give away.

Words don't make you lose or gain power.

AND

You can't base a whole "don't ever apologzie" on one case. lol. lunacy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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what type of bs is that about dont say that u are sorry... come on now, if u realize that u made a mistake u gotta be man enough to apolagize. She smsed me saying that she is sorry about not having sex with me and leaving me hanging but that she doesnt feel confortable having sex with me smelling bad, i smsed her back saying that i was sorry for acting like a fool and that i apolagize for acting like that. She smsed back saying i forgive you sexy chocolate.

So recognizing that u are wrong and apolagizing has nothing wrong with it. She respects herself and shows me the respect of not smelling like **** when she is getting down with me so i should be satisfied that she is showing me this respect and that she cares about not disrispecting me or herself by not smelling like ****.
 

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Originally posted by christz
i don't see kids in the future for this couple
We can only hope that they won't pollute the gene pool with their offspring.
 

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Dude, you need to learn how to break down LMR and lower her ASD shields.

She was ready to be f ucked but you failed her sh it test.
 

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I see the kinda girls yall mess with now, if she has enough respect for herself and towards me to at least not be smelling....its cool with me.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
We can only hope that they won't pollute the gene pool with their offspring.
hahaha or are we supposed to
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah, you overreacted, lol just don't do it again, and don't let it happen again. There is abso-****in-lutely nothing wrong with apologizing. Especially if you do something wrong, just shows you can take accountability.
 

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Originally posted by aBAzLLnA
Yeah, you overreacted, lol just don't do it again, and don't let it happen again. There is abso-****in-lutely nothing wrong with apologizing. Especially if you do something wrong, just shows you can take accountability.
atleast somebody gets it...
 

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Originally posted by JT47319
Dude, you need to learn how to break down LMR and lower her ASD shields.

She was ready to be f ucked but you failed her sh it test.
that post was about as easy to decipher as your username
 

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bfl, u overreacted, however u did good in being a man and apolagizing to your girlfriend, there is nothing wrong with that since she is your girlfriend, and even if she wasnt. it seems that it worked out for you this time just fine but next time remember women test us all the time, dont fail like that again.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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