"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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this is kinda a problem :/

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ok so originally there was a girl i was gaming. she was showing little signs of interest but not enough that i thought she was worth pouring lots of time and effort into her. so, unknowingly, i started gaming one of her good friends. second girl immediately is into me and all that. soon, the first girl is startin to show more interest. fun situation to say the least :cool: so anyway i was texting a buddy of mine kinda doing a guy ego thing and bragging about bein able to get either one of these girls (one's about a 7.5 and the other's about a 7 but they both are like my exact specifications as far as no drugs or drinking and they are good in school-like me) and so the first girl got ahold of my friend's phone and read the texts. so i got in trouble. lol. the first girl is now outta the picture but the second one has forgiven me and texts me nonstop. NOW there's another girl (7.5) that is into me and i've barely gamed her at all. she's just seen me be alpha or whatever and was all over me at our homecoming and everything. so, my question to you "experts" lol is that, even though i kno i probly shoulda learned something from the first time i f'd up, i didnt. and i dont kno which of the two girls i want. any advice? ive thought about pullin out the Mltr (multiple long term relationship) and dating both of em, but they're kinda friends, so im not sure how well that would work. geesh. idk what to do.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'd date the girl that meets your specifications. You'd probably feel better with her and you've already got some ground work laid out.
 
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Hey genius, pick one.

I know, I just made you wet your pants with that breakthrough.
 
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