"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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this is kinda a problem :/

(JJ)

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ok so originally there was a girl i was gaming. she was showing little signs of interest but not enough that i thought she was worth pouring lots of time and effort into her. so, unknowingly, i started gaming one of her good friends. second girl immediately is into me and all that. soon, the first girl is startin to show more interest. fun situation to say the least :cool: so anyway i was texting a buddy of mine kinda doing a guy ego thing and bragging about bein able to get either one of these girls (one's about a 7.5 and the other's about a 7 but they both are like my exact specifications as far as no drugs or drinking and they are good in school-like me) and so the first girl got ahold of my friend's phone and read the texts. so i got in trouble. lol. the first girl is now outta the picture but the second one has forgiven me and texts me nonstop. NOW there's another girl (7.5) that is into me and i've barely gamed her at all. she's just seen me be alpha or whatever and was all over me at our homecoming and everything. so, my question to you "experts" lol is that, even though i kno i probly shoulda learned something from the first time i f'd up, i didnt. and i dont kno which of the two girls i want. any advice? ive thought about pullin out the Mltr (multiple long term relationship) and dating both of em, but they're kinda friends, so im not sure how well that would work. geesh. idk what to do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'd date the girl that meets your specifications. You'd probably feel better with her and you've already got some ground work laid out.
 

Alkali

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Hey genius, pick one.

I know, I just made you wet your pants with that breakthrough.
 
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