This is it!

[The Milk Man]

I got kicked out of school the other day, and finally decided to make a move on this ABSOLUTE HOTTIE that's graduating. Only problem is, she has a b/f who hates my guts.

Earlier today I asked her if she wanted to get together sometime, and she said she'd love to, but it would have to be with a bunch of friends or else her b/f would sh*t or something. Not to mention I have a g/f too, and they're all in the same school lol.

Main thing is, I'm finally in with this chick (and I do mean FINALLY), now how can I work it to my advantage? Seperate this group chillin idea and isolate her?

 

[ShizamDaMan]

Going out with a girl that's taken while you have a girlfriend is not being a Don Juan. It falls under downright sleazy...

 

[CableLight]

Originally posted by ShizamDaMan
Going out with a girl that's taken while you have a girlfriend is not being a Don Juan. It falls under downright sleazy...

Yeah, but it's totally rectified by the whole "getting kicked out of school thing." Thats so bad ass... Why did you even bother to include that detail?

 

[The Milk Man]

Because that was part of the approach. I explained to her I was kicked out (don't worry why, has nothing to do with having a 'bad-ass' appearance) and she was graduating, and I never had a chance to talk to her, so I asked her to get together, and she said yes.

As far as calling me sleazy? I could care less. I'm sixteen years old. I like variety. Variety is good. Especially when it looks like this.
My girlfriend is manipulative, but good in bed, so I put up with her. This girl is easily a 9.5 and her b/f and her are becoming distant, so I saw my chance to strike, so I did.

I don't want moral lectures. I want advice on how to handle this. No more ***** replies please.

 

[Eternal]

This is what I am reading: whine whine whine, blah blah blah, bitch bitch bitch. If you girlfriend is so good, why are you trying to cheat on her?

 

[The Milk Man]

Because not everybody falls into the AFC trap of that one special person. Especially not when I'm 16 years old.

I want advice on how to handle the situation, not your opinions on it. This whole convo took place on-line (bad move, I know, but chances are slim of me seeing her again), I tried to get her number after chatting her into agreeing to a one-on-one date, and she said she can't do that cause her b/f feels threatened by me among a select few other guys (what can I say, I'm a pimp) but she 'promised' that we'd set plans over 'this gay thing' (MSN) real soon.

Where should I take this from here? Wait for her to see if she's a flake, or next time I see her, try and set something up, if it's a no go, next her?

 

[Da Game]

It's not about the "AFC trap of one person." It's about integrity. I agree with you 100% about dating multiple people, as long as you're honest about it with all of them. I used to do what you are doing, and it's really not very nice.

Frankly, I think her response was a No. If she were really into you, she wouldn't give a damn what the lame BF thought, and/or she'd display some integrity herself and dump him. The "let's meet in a group" thing is a one-way ticket to "just friends" land. That's magnified by not giving the #... How the fvck would her BF know about it anyway?

So yeah, I agree with everyone else. I have trouble giving out advice to someone who will use it to manipulate and be dishonest with others.