"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This is interesting and i thank all who post.

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I think its time i give credit where credit is due. I owe everyone who post on this site a thank you,because you have all helped me to improve my quality of life. I took these aspects from the site,how you present yourself,attitude,and conversation skills to heart.Not only has my dating life resurrected by 3 fold,but i recently scored my first job with these skills. I had a interview at raleys for a courtesy cleek(bagger im 17 just out of high school). Ever since reading this site and searching these forums i discovered how important it is to carry yourself in high regards and nothing else. I dressed as a normally would for the day,the day of my interview and i realized "holy shi+, i dont need to "dress up" for my interview,i already dress like this daily". I went to my interview and my now boss said five minutes into the interview "blinkwatt i like you,you look sharp,dress sharp, you seem excited about the job,its yours". I just wanted to thank all who have posted and helped me to improve my life.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That's tight- if only every boss would hire you right away for social skill...
 

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you'll enjoy your job for 2mins until the apathy flows in, hey I'm smart, why am I bagging grocery with old dumb rejects who have failed in life. Those kind of jobs kill the spirit...
 

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perhaps but since in 17 and getting paid 8 dollars after taxes i dont complain.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by diablo
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Congratulations on getting a job bagging people's groceries.
Reminds me of the Sprite commercial where the dude wins at a video game but didn't get a prize. Eh, I guess you had to be there...
 
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