"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is interesting and i thank all who post.

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I think its time i give credit where credit is due. I owe everyone who post on this site a thank you,because you have all helped me to improve my quality of life. I took these aspects from the site,how you present yourself,attitude,and conversation skills to heart.Not only has my dating life resurrected by 3 fold,but i recently scored my first job with these skills. I had a interview at raleys for a courtesy cleek(bagger im 17 just out of high school). Ever since reading this site and searching these forums i discovered how important it is to carry yourself in high regards and nothing else. I dressed as a normally would for the day,the day of my interview and i realized "holy shi+, i dont need to "dress up" for my interview,i already dress like this daily". I went to my interview and my now boss said five minutes into the interview "blinkwatt i like you,you look sharp,dress sharp, you seem excited about the job,its yours". I just wanted to thank all who have posted and helped me to improve my life.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That's tight- if only every boss would hire you right away for social skill...
 

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you'll enjoy your job for 2mins until the apathy flows in, hey I'm smart, why am I bagging grocery with old dumb rejects who have failed in life. Those kind of jobs kill the spirit...
 

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perhaps but since in 17 and getting paid 8 dollars after taxes i dont complain.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by diablo
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Congratulations on getting a job bagging people's groceries.
Reminds me of the Sprite commercial where the dude wins at a video game but didn't get a prize. Eh, I guess you had to be there...
 
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