"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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this is how you do it

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Read some posts about asking her phone number while shes cashiering....ummm ok.


So i was waiting to pay. She seen me before and just made small talk and smiles...its her job whatevs.

But next time i saw her i was in a good mood so i initiated talk this time.

Shes fun...seems fun. But i like her eyes and shes really looking into my eyes right so im like fvck it.


There was people waiting to pay behind me so while shes giving me my receipt i whip out my phone and say whats ur number so we can party later. Boom...she gives it up. Totally not weird. Just 2 kids talking.


See....people dont care if you strike out or not. Thats ur insecurity showing.
I forgot who the user was that posted about how to ask out a cashier. But he needz to be schooled.

Anyway we need more lay reportz instead of questions like is she a bpd...everyday ur not fingering or laying pipe or even cuddling a girl...you better have a good excuse like ur working.
Otherwise im assuming your genes will not go on in thiz world and im glad. Cuz we want winners.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Did you tell her your boundaries? ;)
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Did you tell her your boundaries? ;)
Oh stop it you:crackup: :crackup:
 
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